Picky Eaters-7 Ways To Get Your Child To Eat
Let's face it; lots of little kids are
picky eaters. Most of them outgrow this in time, but meanwhile it can be very
frustrating if the picky eater is one of your own children. Questions are always
in the back of your mind - Are they healthy? Will they grow? Will they fall off
the doctor's growth charts? Will they ever eat anything besides macaroni and
cheese? If there are no health issues and they're just fussy, try some of these
1. Give your dishes
kid-friendly names. For example, call the food Maria's Pixie Dust Noodles or
Beautiful Butterfly Cheese Sandwiches. Some kids prefer names like Eyeball Soup
or Greasy Hair Spaghetti. Whatever works and you're not too disgusted.
2. Find out what food your child's favorite sports person, super hero, or
cartoon figure like and fix these especially for your child. Make a big deal out
of it and take a picture of your child eating the extra special dish.
3. Some people are successful with sneaking bits of offending food into
their child's current favorite dishes. For instance, grated carrots in cookies,
extra fruit in yogurt, raisins added to oatmeal, or a little hamburger mixed in
with the mac and cheese. Baby food can be hidden in a lot of things. Be creative
and experiment. When baking from scratch, you can sometimes take out half the
sugar in cookie, granola, muffin, or snack cake recipes. Oftentimes you can use
applesauce instead of oil.
4. Cut everything up. Sandwiches, toast, cheese, fruit, veggies, and
pancakes can be cut into triangles or interesting cookie cutter shapes. Ask your
child what shape he wants his cheese in today; hearts or stars. Make the
presentation on the plate look appetizing, and be sure one food doesn't touch
another food! That bothers a lot of kids. You can even buy a new special "big
boy" plate or "big girl" bowl. You never know, this could make the food on the
plate look more interesting.
5. Kids like smoothies. Throw frozen strawberries or a berry blend, plus
a banana and any other fresh fruit you want into the blender along with some
milk or orange juice and 1/4 cup of cottage cheese. Let them help prepare their
6. When eating out, let your picky eater try a bite of the food from your
plate. If you take a bite of your entree and rate it from 1-10, your kids become
curious and want to give your food their own rating. Usually if you rate it a 1
yuk, you get more takers than a 10 yummy. They see it as a fun dare.
7. Use the scarcity tactic. It works in sales and it can work at home.
Make a new dish, but only just enough for the grown ups at the table. While
you're all at the table, have the grown ups praise the new dish to each other.
If the kids ask, tell them it's a new dish and "Sorry, but there's only enough
here for me and Dad. I wish you could have some, but this is all there is." If
you've done a good job, your children will be begging to try it. You can then
happily share the small amount you made.
Some of these tactics will work some of the time, but not all of them all of the
time. What's important is that your attitude is light and you're not forcing
them to eat. Try to stay positive and be a good food role model. Eventually,
although there are no guarantees, your child will slowly pass through their
phase of picky eating. I thought my picky eater would never ever like more than
5 things (and 2 of them were pizza), but she did and is now a healthy and
by Peggy Baron
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